Sunday, 23 June 2013

Second Life is TEN YEARS OLD!!!! Celebrate with us!


Due to Linden Lab's Birthday SL10B event being "PG Only" the Freedom Continent set up SLB10A (for adult) which runs from 21-26 June.  To make sure Femdom is represented The Femdom Community in SL -  FCinSL snapped up a corner to set up exhibits.  FCinSL Femdoms participating in the birthday celebration are The Mistresses, The Velvet Crossing, and The Velvet Thorn.   One of our sister sims -  The Queendom of Bouddicea has also joined us in the Femdom corner.

Click here to visit us during the event!


Domaine La Fignonne is currently in hiatus, but if you would like to see what owner LaFemme Merideth is up to be sure to check out her exhibit for her store Design with a Heart next to the Velvet Crossing and Anda's Pink Panda.

Black Velvet Animations has set up a nice store next to The Mistresses exhibit if you are looking for some good "femdom specific" animations.

There are a total of 49 exhibitors in the sim of all types from content creators to clubs so have a good look around while you are here!

But it is NOT just Femdom in this sim.  There are 49 parcels full of adult content creators, club venues, and all sorts of interesting things to see.  So be sure to wander the sim and do some sight seeing!



Friday, 20 July 2012

YES THE HUNT IS ABOUT TO START

The Femdom Community in SL group now brings you a Hunt over 6 of their Sims in celebration of International Femdom Day
The Hunt will starts Saturday 21st July and runs thru to the 28th July.
The 6 Sims involved have hidden 5 boots waiting for you to find.

Get your hud from the Hud Giver, at any one of the participating sims, you must be wearing it when you find and CLICK each boot for it to register you for the grand prizes.
When you find all five boots in each of the 6 Femdoms you are automatically entered to win grand prizes at the end of the day 28 July!
Up to SIX chances to win grand prizes - one per participating Femdom.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL

Monday, 2 July 2012

INTERNATIONAL FEMDOM DAY HUNT COMING SOON
The date July 24th was chosen as the date for International Femdom Day
as a day for celebrating dominant women – seven days a week and 24 hours
a day.
There are real life celebrations going on in various parts of the world.

The Femdom Community in SL group is bringing you a Hunt over all their
Sims in celebration for those who do not have the opportunity for a RL venue.

The Hunt will start on 21st July and run thru to the 28th July.
Seven of the Sims in the Femdom Community group will have hidden
for you 5 boots waiting for you to find. (The Hud you will wear while
hunting will record the boots you have found and all the Hunters that have found
ALL the hunt boots from the sims will go into a draw at the end of the Hunt.)

So not only do you get the prizes inside the boots but each Sim will have
It’s own Major winner who will receive L$1,OOO.

More information coming closer to the date so do make sure you schedule
time for a good Hunting over 21st – 28th July.

WHICH SIMS ARE IN THE FCnSL HUNT?

Domaine la Fignonne
Future Femdom
Mad@m
The Mistresses
The Shrine
The Velvet Thorn
The Velvet Crossing

The Femdom Community in SL group (formerly The Femdom Network)
is a coalition of Femdom owners who strive to bring the very best of
SL Femdom to everyone. We work together to strengthen the community
and encourage people to explore the fascinating world of virtual femdom and
sexuality.


Saturday, 9 June 2012

A BRIGHT LIGHT ON THE DARK PLACES


By StarSong Bright – Owner of the Velvet Thorn Femdom in SL

The taboos we learn through our childhood and adolescence can be very inhibiting.  Many people carry a great deal of shame and fear mixed up in their kinks and fetishes.  Second Life allows us to shine a bright light into those dark places.  The level of anonymity, safety and our virtual representations/avatars give us a way to explore the parts of ourselves that we might simply never try in real life.

Do not be afraid to have a good long look at what turns you on.  Try to set that “internal judgment voice” off and allow yourself to examine the things that make you weak in the knees.  Avoid labels and stereotypes where possible.  The labels are necessary to discuss things, but it is important to separate the labels from ourselves and not fall into believing that we must be this way or that because of X label.  We are individuals, with kinks.  Everyone has kinks, not everyone can face them or wants to, and that is their choice of course.

Oftentimes, to make peace with our dirty little kink secrets, we need to take them from that dark place we hide them and hold them up, turn them over in our hands and figure out where they originated and what we get from them.  Fetishes are often created out of things that happen to us as children and can have had profound effects on us growing up.  Some of the most common are things like boys being fascinated and perhaps wanting to dress up with women’s lingerie or makeup.  In western society the taboo against this can make those items exciting and forbidden.  That said, these are incredibly common among westernized men to fetishize these items, and these fetishes do NOT automatically indicate some of the more hurtful labels such as homosexual or transsexual.

There is no one way a fetish is created; they are as individual as the people who carry them.  For some boys they may have fond memories of being young enough to walk around in their Mommies’ high heels and make her laugh and nobody saying anything about it.  Or perhaps they have fond memories of a sister or cousin playing dress up with them.  Or perhaps they got a thrill out of imagining what it was like to be female.  Perhaps just enjoyed the adrenalin rush of getting away with trying on some female garment when nobody was home or might come back at any moment.  The reasons for any given fetish can be many and varied.

The first year I was in SL I would make the men I met tell me a fantasy, something that turned them on.  I found the variety fascinating and developed a quite a few theories about fetishes and kinks.  Of course, everything in this document SHOULD be taken as “one woman’s opinion,” because your mileage may vary!

I once had a gentleman in SL tell me about his fetish for enemas.  I remember wrinkling my nose at the idea but I asked him about it anyways, curious how one develops such a fetish.  Well it turns out when he was nine or ten he was having problems and his mom and his busty aunt held him down and gave him an enema to deal with it.  Somewhere along the way, the powerlessness of that situation, the powerful caring female figures holding him down and doing something for his own good solidified into what grew into a full-blown fetish.

As we discussed it, he considered some of his other fetishes, many stemming from the same emotional place, wanting to be controlled by a strong woman who would take care of him and force him into a submissive position.  As we turned the scenario and looked at what had created it, he was able to see other avenues to the feeling he was seeking and how many of his fetishes came back to the same place.  He was able to let go of a bit of the baggage of “that is such an odd thing to want!” that he had been weighing himself down with.

From some of the stories and anecdotes I have heard over the years I have a few personal theories.  Spankings are one of the more common fetishes in both sexes.  For many a spanking harkens back to when life was simple and we were small and whatever infraction we had committed could be wiped away by a caring parent or caretaker giving us a good butt reddening and a trip to timeout land in our bedroom.   Whether it comes from that, or simply the chemicals released in our brains as we are struck, it is a very common fetish – this desire to be spanked.

It appears that a heavy conscience can often send people on the hunt for someone to absolve them with a good spanking or other such pain-making practice.   But then, as Freud said “sometimes a cigar is just a cigar,” and a person can simply enjoy feeling the burn.  There is no one size fits all explanation for any of this, only the individual can see the origins and the needs being met by any particular kink.

SL gives you a place to work through what makes you tick, and find ways to scratch those little itches.  You will find most kinks in the world represented somewhere in SL.  Do not be afraid to stare your kinks straight in the face and get to know them, they are a part of you, and nothing to be ashamed of in the end.  The better you understand them, the easier they are to live with, and some are just downright fun! Live a little!





Tuesday, 8 May 2012

The Sombrero dance on Sunday was another success with DJ Boy Decuir extending the dance by another hour. Thanks to everyone that came to the 3 day Femdom Fiesta and I trust you were able make some new friends and catch up with some old ones as I did. Some of those costumes were amazing and certainly added to the festive spirit. The Sim owners of FCnSL sincerely thank you for your support and hope to bring you another event further in the year.

Saturday, 5 May 2012

Sixty odd people on the dance floor at the Cinco DeMayo Dance. Dj Boldo played some amazing songs well suited to the Cinco DeMayo theme.
If you love to dance don’t miss the Sunday Sombrero Dance at noon with Dj Boy Decuir. Get your free Sombrero from down in the Fair area and enjoy a few hours of dancing. Check the Event Schedule further down this blog and find the events still to come yet for this great Femdom Fiesta Weekend.